This is a debatable question especially between husband and wife, parent and child, or male and female. However, emotions aside, there are a few traits that aptly describe the kind of driver you would feel comfortable with.
Someone who knows the mechanics – This is very important because if you don’t know the basic of how a car runs, you shouldn’t be driving especially at night or in deserted roads. This helps because if faced with a car problem, it would easier to diagnose and not be fooled by a mechanic. You may also be able to repair it yourself, at least temporarily so you can get back home.

Someone who respects others on the road – A driver who has no regard for other drivers or pedestrian is a walking time bomb. He is likely to be reckless, cross intersections without stopping, making wide turns and speeding for the heck of it.
Someone who isn’t a clutch driver is also a danger, not to anyone. He is at risk of damaging the car and even if it is his or her car, it doesn’t make sense to not treat the car properly. Driving this way can also cause unnecessary pollution and is not eco-friendly at all.
A good driver is neither also one who does not let his license expire nor the car registration. He parks at the right places without sticking out, and pays the right parking fees. Someone who allows a minor to drive is irresponsible and should have hid driving privileges revoked. Just recently there was a story about a man who would get drunk and ask his 9 year old child to drive him home. This kind of attitude reeks of immaturity, complete disregard for the law and the safety of the child.
Thus, a good driver is neither male nor female. It also has nothing to do with experience and age. Driving well has everything to do with respecting the privilege given to drive public roads and highways, and the maturity not to abuse that right. In short, not drinking and driving; not driving while under the influence of drugs or illegal substances; not driving over the speed limit; and not caring about putting others at risk.